Melissa Tomko has graciously agreed to write us some devotionals. I'm excited to see where the spirit leads in her writing and how she will encourage us to grow in our relationship with Him. This is the first of such devos. It might be good to have a journal handy as there will be some prompts to record what the spirit is speaking directly to you. Enjoy!
Think
about your typical day. Perhaps you work long hours. Maybe you are a
mother of very young children who doesn’t get much sleep. You may
have older kids who have homework and extracurricular activities. You
might have volunteer commitments. Your average day may be something
completely different or it may be a combination of all of the above.
No matter what you do, your time is precious. We all have people and
things that need our time and attention, whether they are husbands,
children, activities or a career. These things can be equally
rewarding and draining, and the one thing that can truly refresh is
the thing that we often fail to adequately nurture. None of the other
important things in our lives can really be done well without the
most important thing – a thriving relationship with the Living God.
A
single, male friend of mine recently shared that he was discouraged
and emotionally spent, so he was “going off the grid” and leaving
town for a few days to be in solitude with Jesus. Can you relate to
how he feels? Unfortunately for many women, being in solitude with
Christ for days at a time is simply not an option. However, just
because we can’t get away for a long personal retreat with the Lord
doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t look for quiet moments in our day
to be with Him, talk with Him, and be refreshed by His presence in
our life. Doing so is following the example of Christ Himself, who
often sought solitary places to pray, even during busy times of
ministry.
Read
Mark 1:35, Matthew 14:23, and Luke 5:16. Ask God to help you learn
to follow Christ’s example of “coming away” during the busyness
of life. Record what He might be telling you.
The
pursuit of a relationship with God is a lifelong process. In the book
The Pursuit of God A.W. Tozer reminds us that the desire to pursue
God is in us because God first pursued us:
“We
pursue God because, and only because, He has first put an urge within
us that spurs
us
to the pursuit. ‘No man can come to me,’ said our Lord, ‘except
the Father which hath
sent
me draw him,’ and it is by this very prevenient drawing that God
takes us from every
vestige
of credit for the act of coming. The impulse to pursue God originates
with God,
but
the outworking of that impulse is our following hard after Him; and
all the time we
are
pursuing Him we are already in His hand: ‘Thy right hand upholdeth
me.’”
If
we have truly tasted the goodness of God we will naturally long for
more. We do not have to keep pursuing for the sake of our salvation
but simply for the joy and satisfaction and fullness of knowing Him
more. God’s personal nature requires conscious effort to cultivate
a relationship, yet so often this most important relationship is the
one we most neglect. Developing strong, positive relationships with
our husbands, children, friends and co-workers is so important, but
those efforts are in vain if we are not first pursuing a relationship
with God .
“Our
calling as children of God is to know Him, first and foremost. As Os
Guinness
Writes,
‘It’s not about you. It’s about the one who calls you.’ Our
primary calling is to be
with
God, to immerse ourselves in His immeasurable love and grace.
Everything else
flows
out of this connection, which is our absolute number on priority.”
The
Missional Mom (p. 19-20)
It
is when we are firmly planted in the Lord that we will flourish and
bear the most fruit in other areas of life.
Read
Jeremiah 17:7-8. Ask God to show you how to be so deeply planted in
Him that you will bear fruit in the driest of times. Record your
thoughts.
Many
places in Scripture encourage us to actively pursue an intimate
relationship with God. Deuteronomy 6:5 says, “Love the Lord your
God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your
strength.” It is hard to love someone with that kind of depth and
intensity if we are not intentionally pursuing a relationship with
them. David is a wonderful example of someone who continued to pursue
God in good times and bad. The Psalms are full of verses describing a
close, personal relationship with the Father.
Take
some time to meditate on these verses, let them encourage you to
intentionally pursue your God with all your heart, soul, and
strength, and share what God is teaching you below.
Psalm
42
(David is going through a trial, yet he continues to thirst for God
and praise Him.)
Spend
some time praying over these Scriptures, talking to the Living God
and listening for Him to speak into your heart. We cannot get through
this life without complete reliance on God. Jesus tells us that “Man
shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the
mouth of God,” (Matthew 4:4).
Father,
thank you for pursuing me first. I want the pursuit of a deeper
relationship with you to be a lifelong goal. I pray that I would not
become stagnant, but that I would always actively seek you and let
your Word guide my life.